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Dementia · Staying active

Keeping a parent with dementia active

She forgets the day, but her legs still want to walk, and you want to keep that going.

Why does movement matter when memory is failing?

Because the body still needs it. Muscles, balance and heart health depend on use, and a person with dementia can become weak and unsteady within weeks of sitting.

Staying active also lifts mood, helps sleep and gives a sense of purpose. A walk to the gate may be the best part of her day.

Memory loss continues, and movement helps her live better while it does.

How can daily routines become exercise?

Use what she already knows. Familiar tasks need little explanation, and they feel like her life, not like therapy.

  • A morning walk to the end of the road and back, at the same time each day.
  • Watering plants, sweeping the porch or folding laundry together.
  • Standing up and sitting down a few times at the dining table before a meal.
  • Dancing or clapping to an old song from her youth.
  • Walking to the market or kopitiam, with someone beside her.

Keep to a steady routine. Dementia is easier when the day has a familiar shape.

How do you give cues she can follow?

Use short, calm phrases and gestures. Say her name first and wait for her eyes. Then say one instruction, such as “stand up”, and show it.

Praise what she does, and never correct her harshly. If she gets upset, stop and try again later.

Ask one question at once. Offer two choices at most, such as “tea or water?”, and she can answer.

How do you keep walks and the home safe?

Walk in the cooler part of the day and in places she knows, such as the lane near home, a quiet park path or the neighbour’s garden.

At home, clear mats, cables and clutter. Add a night light to the way to the toilet, and keep the bathroom floor dry. Keep gates and doors secured if she wanders, and tell neighbours.

Put her name and your phone number on a card in her pocket. Read balance and falls in older Ipoh homes for more home changes.

What about late afternoon restlessness?

Some people become more agitated as the day ends. A short walk in the early afternoon, daylight, and a calm, quiet evening can help.

Keep caffeine low in the afternoon, keep the light bright, and avoid a noisy television. If agitation is new or severe, talk to her doctor in case there is pain or infection.

How can a physiotherapist help?

We assess her strength, balance and walking, and adapt the plan to how much she can follow. We build simple routines into her day, and teach the family and helper how to cue and keep her safe.

Read about mobility in dementia and how home physiotherapy in Ipoh works. We will also look after you: see caregiver back care.

What about the centre in Canning Garden?

Our Canning Garden centre, near Fatimah Hospital, is opening soon, but a new place can confuse a person with dementia. A home visit across Ipoh is often the gentler start.

Questions people ask

Why does staying active matter in dementia?

Movement keeps muscles, balance and mood stronger, and helps sleep and appetite. A person who stops moving loses strength fast, which raises the chance of a fall. Keeping her active helps her daily life, even though it does not stop the memory problem.

She refuses to exercise. What can I do?

Do not call it exercise. Turn it into something she already enjoys: a walk to the gate, tending plants, dancing to an old song, folding clothes. Join in, and keep it short and cheerful.

How do I give instructions she can follow?

One step at a time, in a calm voice, with a gesture. Say 'stand up' and show it, then wait. Avoid long sentences and questions with a list of choices. If she cannot follow, try again later rather than pushing.

Is it safe to go outside with her?

Yes, with planning. Walk at the cooler part of the day, in a place she knows, with someone beside her and a name tag or phone number in her pocket. If she tends to wander, keep the gate secured and tell neighbours.

Every body is different. For a diagnosis that fits you, see a registered physiotherapist or doctor, and seek urgent care for sudden weakness, numbness, chest pain or severe pain after a fall.

Clinical editor: M Thurairaj, physiotherapist registered with the Malaysian Allied Health Professions Council (MAHPC). How we write and check our pages

Talk to a physiotherapist about your next step

If your parent has dementia and has slowed down or stopped moving, tell us what she enjoys and what she used to do; we will suggest how a home visit can build safe activity into her day and support you.

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